EL’s Birth Plan/Preferences
Here’s our birth “preferences”. The jist of it is that we’re flexible and would appreciate advice on nearly everything.
Mother’s name: EL
The Big issue:
Please, no IVs in my hands unless absolutely necessary. I can take multiple sticks to try to get one in my arm or wherever. If an IV in my hand is the last resort, then please do not tell me about it beforehand – just say “we’re putting it in your hand right now” and immediately put it in. Please don’t give me time to worry about it.
Basically, my wish is to have a balanced labor and delivery – a good balance between the health of our child and my health. We want to be as flexible as possible, and are open to any and all suggestions, but here are our preferences:
-I will be bringing my own music to play, if possible.
-I would like to be free to walk around as much as possible.
-I would like to be free to move around and change position at will throughout labor.
-I would like to try the birthing tub as a comfort measure. (If comfortable, and the midwives think it’s okay, then birthing there will be fine.)
-I would like to have fluids by mouth throughout the first stage of labor.
-I would like to wear my glasses at all times.
-I would like my husband to be present at all times. No other visitors, please, though medical students might be okay on a case by case basis. I would like to reserve the right to ask any non-essential people to leave if needed.
-Suggestions on other comfort measures to try would be greatly appreciated.
We encourage our TMC moms to walk, to play music, to utilize the bath tubs or shower to provide comfort. Nurses will even jump in the shower to help if you want.
-I would prefer to try changing positions and other natural methods of augmentation (walking, nipple stimulation, etc) before pitocin is administered or the amniotic sac is ruptured.
-Suggestions on other methods of augmentation would be greatly appreciated.
-I’d like to try other natural comfort measures before any pain medication is given (birthing tub, shower, walking, birth ball, positions.)
-Please give me pointers and suggestions on other things to try.
-When I’m ready for an epidural, I’ll ask for one.
-I’d like to avoid a Caesarean unless absolutely necessary.
-If the midwives determine a C-section is necessary, I’d like to be a part of the decision making process as well as my husband. If I am unable, I would like my husband to participate as my representative.
-I would like my husband to be present at all possible times at my head until delivery.
-I wish to have an epidural for anesthesia.
-If the baby is not in distress, the baby should be given to my husband immediately after birth.
-I would like my husband to stay with the baby while I am stitched up.
-Suggestions on how to best avoid, or mitigate an episitomy or tear would be greatly appreciated.
-I would appreciate guidance in when to push and when to stop so the perineum can stretch.
-If possible, I would like to use perineal massage to avoid the need for an episotomy or a tear.
-I would like a local anethestic to repair an episotomy or a tear.
Immediately after delivery:
-If possible, I would like my husband to cut the cord.
-I would like either my husband or myself to hold the baby while the placenta is delivered and any tissue repairs are made.
-We would like vitamin K, the eye ointment and all weighing, etc to take place as soon possible after delivery so we can start bonding as soon as possible.
-I would like my husband to be with the baby at all times during essential procedures.
-I would like a private room, if available.
-Unless required for health reasons, I do not wish to be separated from my baby.
-I plan to breastfeed the baby, and would like to begin nursing as soon as possible after birth.
We have lactation consultants and trained staff to support breastfeeding mothers. We were recognized by the International Board of Certified Lactation Consultants for our support of breastfeeding.
-we do not want our baby circumcised.
Birth plans are individual in nature and we encourage you to create your own. You can find help for writing your birth plan during our childbirth education classes also.